It’s time that family court judges and child welfare social workers realized that for the best interest of a child, that all children need both parents to develop in a healthy and stable manner.
You really wanted to say YES, but added poitically correct disclaimers. Because you gave birth and nursed, you cannot not imagine anyone else having the same degree of attachment to your child. But being a parent is a role that is developed and grows with the child. Unfortunately, a lot of fathers are shoved aside, even in ‘healthy’ relationships, and this role is not permitted to develop. It happens so frequently, and is so easily justified as ‘natural’ that not enough people question it.
It’s about the money guys. The court likes to name the mother as the custodial parent and the the father as the non, because the non custodial parent has to pay the child support – and pay it through the system. Most men still make more than women, so higher $ amts can be set. The more $ the States collect, the more $ they get from the Fed Gov in rebates – 60% of every dollar. It’s a corrupt system based on illegal taxation – corrupt from beginning to end.
Really, what are those formative years you speak of?, im very interested to know. Perhaps you should speak to the judge who gave me(im a man) custody of my 3 year ol daughter. As for the comment as a whole, there is no scientific proof to back up your claim, merely a socially accepted stigma which must be overcome. If I were to agree with you on your point perhaps you would agree with me on the point that men are smarter then woman. Would u not agree that that is also a stigma?
Really, what are those formative years you speak of?, im very interested to know. Perhaps you should speak to the judge who gave me(im a man) custody of my 3 year ol daughter. As for the comment as a whole, there is no scientific proof to back up your claim, merely a socially accepted stigma which must be overcome. If I were to agree with you on your point perhaps you would agree with me on the point that men are smarter then woman. Would u not agree that that is also a stigma?
im lucky im still with my partner and see my child when ever i can(student in a different city), but the same problems go on here too in the UK, there was a fathers peaceful protest in London a few months ago.Westerb Europe,Canada and America should have a huge fathers protest on the same day (taking in account time difference)
I must be a lucky father, Living in CT and have 5-1/2 days a week with my son. I don’t agree that I’m still considered a non custodial parent and still pay cheld support.
Connecticut is the worst state for giving custody to a mother. I know of a child who is possibly going to go back and live with her mom who is remarried to a man who raped and molested his own children. the judges and attorney generals office along with the court appointed lawyer for the child think a mom is best suited to raise children.The childs real dad has been a positive role model
You really wanted to say YES, but added poitically correct disclaimers. Because you gave birth and nursed, you cannot not imagine anyone else having the same degree of attachment to your child. But being a parent is a role that is developed and grows with the child. Unfortunately, a lot of fathers are shoved aside, even in ‘healthy’ relationships, and this role is not permitted to develop. It happens so frequently, and is so easily justified as ‘natural’ that not enough people question it.
It’s about the money guys. The court likes to name the mother as the custodial parent and the the father as the non, because the non custodial parent has to pay the child support – and pay it through the system. Most men still make more than women, so higher $ amts can be set. The more $ the States collect, the more $ they get from the Fed Gov in rebates – 60% of every dollar. It’s a corrupt system based on illegal taxation – corrupt from beginning to end.
the better parent, makes the better parent. based on the consistency, effort and commitment made towards the child
Really, what are those formative years you speak of?, im very interested to know. Perhaps you should speak to the judge who gave me(im a man) custody of my 3 year ol daughter. As for the comment as a whole, there is no scientific proof to back up your claim, merely a socially accepted stigma which must be overcome. If I were to agree with you on your point perhaps you would agree with me on the point that men are smarter then woman. Would u not agree that that is also a stigma?
Really, what are those formative years you speak of?, im very interested to know. Perhaps you should speak to the judge who gave me(im a man) custody of my 3 year ol daughter. As for the comment as a whole, there is no scientific proof to back up your claim, merely a socially accepted stigma which must be overcome. If I were to agree with you on your point perhaps you would agree with me on the point that men are smarter then woman. Would u not agree that that is also a stigma?
yes, generally a mother makes a better parent for the first formative years of a child’s life.
No parent is exempt from Judicial Corruption in the United States of America/Theft of your child. Speak up America!
“People should not fear their Government… the Government should fear their People!
im lucky im still with my partner and see my child when ever i can(student in a different city), but the same problems go on here too in the UK, there was a fathers peaceful protest in London a few months ago.Westerb Europe,Canada and America should have a huge fathers protest on the same day (taking in account time difference)
I must be a lucky father, Living in CT and have 5-1/2 days a week with my son. I don’t agree that I’m still considered a non custodial parent and still pay cheld support.
Connecticut is the worst state for giving custody to a mother. I know of a child who is possibly going to go back and live with her mom who is remarried to a man who raped and molested his own children. the judges and attorney generals office along with the court appointed lawyer for the child think a mom is best suited to raise children.The childs real dad has been a positive role model